Years have turned again. Turned and things, like seasons, have
changed.
SO MUCH HAS CHANGED.
Today marks 4 years after
tragedy struck my life. 4 years since I found my Husband in an affair with my
17 year old half sister. Not just sexually either. He claimed to love
her...told me i was in the way. I am sure if you go through some old blogs you
will stumble across the word vomit I splattered on page after page. 4
years of feeling second best. 4 years of pretending like I was Ok. 4 years of
therapy an journal entries I can barely read because my hand writing is so
horrid. I look back and I think to myself...will I ever feel anything less then
what I feel? Will it ever pass? I feel like this is the absolute most pain I
have felt from a betrayal in my whole 31 years. The pain is real...and the pain
is still very present inside of my chest. Some days barely noticeable while
other days I feel it bubble and cause minor affixation.
What a mess.
I did everything I could to
carry on and move forward. Erich and I had THE most beautiful baby girl in
2017.
I begged him, pleaded...and
sacrificed so much in order for him to fix the hole he created. After our
daughter was born things got even stranger with his obsession to find other
women to share himself with. I cried to him...Please do not do this. Fix our
marriage or we will be facing divorce before Maddy's first birthday.
I moved out of our home January
3rd 2018...exactly 19 days before my daughters 1st birthday.
Once upon a time, in a land far,
far away, there lived a girl with long shady eyes. She carried those eyes in a
skull that swam with Chaos...they always seemed full of static. They always
were wet and glassy...some days they seemed frozen. Of all the things she
painted on her face...to hide the truth, those eyes could not lie.
They held stories that people craved to learn. They held truths
she didn't know how to share. Who would care anyways?
Then one afternoon, on the celebration day of her birth, a single
drop fell in to the shallow pool of despair, and caused ripple after ripple. Like
an echo in a ravine...returning to you over and over.
When they say you have one person in this world, that is your
person, they weren't kidding. So many people pass through your story book that
sometimes they all just become a blur. But when you meet someone you have
shared memories with, in the past...that's something so special and so rare.
He found me and he swore he wasn't even looking. It was something
like electricity that passed between us. There was something in those eyes that
yearned for me...something so familiar. Like in lives past I looked into those
eyes before. Baby blue with a golden ring around the center. I knew those eyes.
And those eyes knew me.
He split my soul right down the middle and severed me from
reality. Pulled me into his arms, one night, in the pouring rain and whispered
in my ear...
"I know this will fuck things up, but i don't care. I love
you."
My breath caught in my throat...but the mountains of broken
promises in my esophagus wouldn't let any words come out. I just let the rain continue to soak my flesh
and drip down my back. That night tasted like gin and there was magic in the
air. A certain electrical current went though the sky...and enveloped us into a
thing that I don't have a name for.
Every star in the sky could have tumbled down in to the ground and
I wouldn't even have noticed.
Here we are many moons after that night...and for the first time
in 4 years, i feel like someone is loving me the way I should be. The way I
deserve.
And if that hurts anyone or ruffles feathers....take a long walk
off a short pier.
I hope you get what you have given back 50 fold.
Breathing slowly but surely,
-J.C.